Hiralious

Around here, Men don't have to find a wife on their own merit. It has relaxed them into a very casual attitude about dating and love. It is optional for them. At the end of the day, by the time he is in his late twenties, every Pakistani man will find a spouse , no matter how many hearts he has broken . He doesn't have to pay attention, he doesn't have to face the fear that a woman can walk out of the door, he doesn't get to learn that in loving a person, and to win a chance at that love, he has to downplay his ego, he doesn't usually have to pay for the consequences of taking his wife for granted. All these things you learn through the fear of losing a person and through knowledge of loving an equal whose love for you is not a product  of submission, obedience or taking dictation from the society. All these fears are for women. All the advice that is whispered is for women to hang onto their men in a better way. Unless he is conscientious by himself, there is generally no pressure on a man to behave himself, and not any need as such.