You know all hearts are crafted with so much love and generosity. The hearts are not yet tainted by the pollution in the world. They seek true love as the first instinct to fill in the gaps of their lives. The hearts in this time period are open, big and free of doubt. The laughter of people is real, they are believing, willing to go farther and farther in their quest.
Until the world starts influencing them. World teaches us all weird ways. It teaches us to be clever, to compete for survival,and more than anything it teaches us to judge. It sets a system of values and boundaries according to which we start categorizing people. The news of this categorization reaches these open hearts, they start to fight for the world's approval instead, to fall in the 'right category'. They forget what they sought. They forget to laugh freely. They say they love, they say they make friends. But they don't really know what is that kind of love where you do not feel differently on the inside. Where your heart and soul .speak in unison. Where you are so sure about the feeling that there is no room for 1 percent of a doubt even. You know, the kind of love where you know the other person by heart so well as you know yourself, so when someone says something against her you do not let it affect you, you laugh it off as you laugh off an accusation from yourself.
How can we reach our destiny when we have accepted a hundred systems and frameworks to evaluate the people in our life with? Is it fair of us to comment or complain about true feelings being hurt and expectations not being met when we are not even pure in the way we feel?
The way people start off. The way two kids holding hands in a garden, when they are killing beetles or picking the spring flowers and lilies become friends is genuine. They have not been hurt. They are not yet familiar with the cateogerization criteria. They feel it is ok to make the poorest kid their best friends until their parents tell them not to
And the judgement just builds on. One brick atop another is laid on by the world. You let the world define your happiness without ever thinking, or knowing that , You don't judge the people you love. you feel them with your heart.
Until the world starts influencing them. World teaches us all weird ways. It teaches us to be clever, to compete for survival,and more than anything it teaches us to judge. It sets a system of values and boundaries according to which we start categorizing people. The news of this categorization reaches these open hearts, they start to fight for the world's approval instead, to fall in the 'right category'. They forget what they sought. They forget to laugh freely. They say they love, they say they make friends. But they don't really know what is that kind of love where you do not feel differently on the inside. Where your heart and soul .speak in unison. Where you are so sure about the feeling that there is no room for 1 percent of a doubt even. You know, the kind of love where you know the other person by heart so well as you know yourself, so when someone says something against her you do not let it affect you, you laugh it off as you laugh off an accusation from yourself.
How can we reach our destiny when we have accepted a hundred systems and frameworks to evaluate the people in our life with? Is it fair of us to comment or complain about true feelings being hurt and expectations not being met when we are not even pure in the way we feel?
The way people start off. The way two kids holding hands in a garden, when they are killing beetles or picking the spring flowers and lilies become friends is genuine. They have not been hurt. They are not yet familiar with the cateogerization criteria. They feel it is ok to make the poorest kid their best friends until their parents tell them not to
And the judgement just builds on. One brick atop another is laid on by the world. You let the world define your happiness without ever thinking, or knowing that , You don't judge the people you love. you feel them with your heart.
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