' It doesn't matter what you are if you are confident of what you are. They call you a bitch, its fine, own it up if you are and don't try to act like mother Teressa for that would be an even bigger FAIL'
ANNOYING GIRLS, so, Here we go!
''Every guy who talks to me is interested in me.'' A Desi woman's dilemma!
This psychological problem ( symptomatic well-wishing) is confined to the part of the world where i live. Women here are unable to entertain the idea of a man approaching them for a purpose other than flirting.
Dressing to grab attention. Then complaining about the attention you're getting!
It's a matter of choice whether you want to play down your looks or enhance them. IF you choose to do the latter, then you will attract attention naturally. And this is exactly what you are looking for!
Then why pretend and complain about the gazes that follow your walk or in desi slang 'check you out'? ( Complaining is hypocritical because virtually, all the girls in this category would be heartbroken if they are not noticed)
This kind of behaviour is unacceptable as well as unnecessary because there's nothing wrong with being proud of your looks and giving the world a show of what you've got!
The girls who send you texts about rating them on basis of looks.
I wonder about the senders of such texts, do they expect honesty or praise? ( In most cases they are mutually exclusive )
My summertime horror. ' Can i borrow your water bottle? '
Yes you can, if we are on very intimate terms but not otherwise. I believe in sharing and team work but sharing pencils , sanitizers and soaps is different from sharing saliva.
Girls who get all touchy without invitation
This is not a DEFINITE annoying habit,since friends may want to get physical with each other but I find it very annoying. If a girl rests her head in my lap, not only would i feel awkward but also VERY embarrassed. The smooches and hugs when we meet are an infectious product of Arabian culture. Whenever two Arab women meet they kiss more and talk less.
World is mean to the meanie
We all have this cunning and manipulative girl in our life, complaining about the world doing wrong to her. This is a complex behavioural problem (and untreatable mainly ), which sets off a vicious cycle in which the offender chooses to sit in the cuckoo-hole of 'victim' to satisfy her conscience.
Girls who pretend they don't care about guys when actually they are all they care about!
These girls are dangerous because they have the power to drive any sensible girl crazy with their endless talk of guys. For the most part, you are told how much they hate guys and how all boys are the same, for the rest they give air of an attitude that wouldn't make concession for Prince Williams if he had hots for them.
But their real intentions are revealed by their eagerness, none talks about things he would rather ignore.
I took picture in a bathroom with toilet seat as a background. How cool!
Self-explanatory.
Girls who find idea of 'suffering' romantic
I will quote someone's status update for example, '' For the world,I am smiling, but inside i am dying'' and there are a hundred comments below it making sympathetic remarks. It's ok to be moved by such touching statements but for God's sake, keep a composure. The first rule about patience is you don't BOAST about it. And if you are trying to imply that you are smiling on the outside to please/fool the world, you are blowing it all away with a public status update.
I would like to tell these girls that No you are not Mother Teressa, and no you have no patience. You just find the idea of a suffering, romantic.
Note : The above article is not meant to dishearten you if you can relate to any of these categories. We all make mistakes and act foolishly but that's not the point here, if you noticed this post is mainly focussed on hypocrisy that is again not an ESSENTIAL part of one's nature and can be overcome easily with the help of a wake-up reminder which i hope this post served as .
Keep reading - Hiralious.
ANNOYING GIRLS, so, Here we go!
''Every guy who talks to me is interested in me.'' A Desi woman's dilemma!
This psychological problem ( symptomatic well-wishing) is confined to the part of the world where i live. Women here are unable to entertain the idea of a man approaching them for a purpose other than flirting.
Dressing to grab attention. Then complaining about the attention you're getting!
It's a matter of choice whether you want to play down your looks or enhance them. IF you choose to do the latter, then you will attract attention naturally. And this is exactly what you are looking for!
Then why pretend and complain about the gazes that follow your walk or in desi slang 'check you out'? ( Complaining is hypocritical because virtually, all the girls in this category would be heartbroken if they are not noticed)
This kind of behaviour is unacceptable as well as unnecessary because there's nothing wrong with being proud of your looks and giving the world a show of what you've got!
The girls who send you texts about rating them on basis of looks.
I wonder about the senders of such texts, do they expect honesty or praise? ( In most cases they are mutually exclusive )
My summertime horror. ' Can i borrow your water bottle? '
Yes you can, if we are on very intimate terms but not otherwise. I believe in sharing and team work but sharing pencils , sanitizers and soaps is different from sharing saliva.
Girls who get all touchy without invitation
This is not a DEFINITE annoying habit,since friends may want to get physical with each other but I find it very annoying. If a girl rests her head in my lap, not only would i feel awkward but also VERY embarrassed. The smooches and hugs when we meet are an infectious product of Arabian culture. Whenever two Arab women meet they kiss more and talk less.
World is mean to the meanie
We all have this cunning and manipulative girl in our life, complaining about the world doing wrong to her. This is a complex behavioural problem (and untreatable mainly ), which sets off a vicious cycle in which the offender chooses to sit in the cuckoo-hole of 'victim' to satisfy her conscience.
Girls who pretend they don't care about guys when actually they are all they care about!
These girls are dangerous because they have the power to drive any sensible girl crazy with their endless talk of guys. For the most part, you are told how much they hate guys and how all boys are the same, for the rest they give air of an attitude that wouldn't make concession for Prince Williams if he had hots for them.
But their real intentions are revealed by their eagerness, none talks about things he would rather ignore.
I took picture in a bathroom with toilet seat as a background. How cool!
Self-explanatory.
Girls who find idea of 'suffering' romantic
I will quote someone's status update for example, '' For the world,I am smiling, but inside i am dying'' and there are a hundred comments below it making sympathetic remarks. It's ok to be moved by such touching statements but for God's sake, keep a composure. The first rule about patience is you don't BOAST about it. And if you are trying to imply that you are smiling on the outside to please/fool the world, you are blowing it all away with a public status update.
I would like to tell these girls that No you are not Mother Teressa, and no you have no patience. You just find the idea of a suffering, romantic.
Note : The above article is not meant to dishearten you if you can relate to any of these categories. We all make mistakes and act foolishly but that's not the point here, if you noticed this post is mainly focussed on hypocrisy that is again not an ESSENTIAL part of one's nature and can be overcome easily with the help of a wake-up reminder which i hope this post served as .
Keep reading - Hiralious.
you are too good at expressing,loving this
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